Essays on recognizing toxic patterns, identifying red flags early, and breaking the cycle before it becomes your autobiography.
Browse EssaysStop collecting red flags like they're badges. Start recognizing patterns.
After surviving 25 catastrophic relationships and writing a book about it, I've learned to spot red flags from a mile away.
Field-tested strategies for surviving modern dating's worst moments with your dignity (mostly) intact.
It doesn't start with taking your money. It starts with small comments about how you spend it.
A comprehensive field guide to recognizing, documenting, and escaping toxic relationship patterns.
When is someone genuinely interested, and when are they love bombing you? Here's how to spot the difference.
From gaslighting to triangulation, here are the manipulation tactics narcissists use—and how to spot them early.
One essay per week on recognizing toxic patterns before they become your autobiography.